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From Crisis to connection: Couples therapy that works

The discovery of a partner’s deceptive sexual behavior is traumatic.

You are likely feeling overwhelmed, lost, hurt, and unsure if this relationship can (or should) survive.

Whether you are the partner who has acted outside the relationship, or the one who has been deeply hurt by the betrayal, couples therapy can guide you both through this complex, and highly emotional terrain.

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Healing is possible - with support and structure

In my work with couples, I create a safe space where both partners can feel seen, heard, and supported. Using a trauma-informed approach and my training as a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), I help couples to:

  • Understand the impact of addiction and betrayal trauma

  • Establish emotional safety and healthy boundaries

  • Learn effective communication tools to navigate painful conversations

  • Rebuild trust, increase emotional connection, and intimacy

  • Create a path forward with clarity and intention - whether together or apart

Couples therapy after betrayal isn’t about rushing to forgiveness or forgetting what happened. It is about creating structure, increasing honest communication, and working at a pace that honors both of your experiences. I guide couples through the healing process with empathy, accountability, and hope.

The couples who do the work, invest in the commitment to put effort into the relationship repair, find that their relationship is better than it was before the discovery. Yes, you read that right. Healing is truly possible, because if it didn’t happen, there is no way I could do this work. If you are ready to stop the cycle, and get back to feeling connected (even when it still feels hard) then reach out today and let’s talk about your specific goals for couples therapy.